Click here to post a comment. All the more reason to get creative Most of us find that lying flat on our backs, missionary style, is the best way to masturbate. An example: Maybe you're having a hard time reaching orgasm with your new partner and don't have an answer when they ask, "what do you like? Still, if you find yourself freaking out because nothing's "happening," especially during your first me-sesh, that's totally normal and completely okay.
2. Set the ~mood~.
According to a survey by Cosmo, only 57 percent of women can orgasm during sex. So unfair, right? Enter: OMGYES, an online site where both men and women can get the tips they need to make reaching an orgasm a reality. As Mic reports, cofounder, Rob Perkins, was having a chat with his friend Lydia Daniller about just how elusive the female orgasm can be. Daniller told Mic:. So Perkins and Daniller did what anyone would do in the name of trying to bring more attention to the female orgasm : They talked to hundreds of women about techniques, desires, and basically what gets them off. Then they got together with researchers at Indiana University to poll over a 1, women between 18 and 95, to get their input on what works for them.
You wake up late on a Saturday morning You want to get it on, in, and everywhere in between, but your booty call is currently off-limits duh—it's daylight and the date you had last week was, let's be real, a total dud. What's a girl to do? Masturbate, of course! For starters, it doesn't just feel good—solo play is legit good for you.
BuzzFeed asked for your best techniques — here are tips from our readers with vaginas that you might want to try yourself. Which is understandable! Masturbation might not be as taboo as it used to be, but we're still not encouraged to be as experimental and adventurous in our solo sex lives as we are in our regular ones. To help you get some new ideas, BuzzFeed asked people of all ages, genders, and sexualities to describe the nitty-gritty of how they actually masturbate. Here are tips from our readers with vaginas that you might want to try yourself. Just kidding, but I've never had one line up perfectly with my clitoris when I was also using it for penetration.